We are facing critical times in our society as the outrage culture dominates the headlines. People are yelling and screaming at each other. We are divided and polarized more than ever. It seems open, honest and unemotional dialogue is a thing of the past. Why is this and what happened to mutual respect? There two simple explanations. One, we have lost our Mental Toughness and two, we have very low Emotional Intelligence . I will explain how we lost each and how we can restore them both.